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The Bearded Lady: The Power of Representation

Writer: Crystal LibbyCrystal Libby

A sneak preview of Crystal Libby's upcoming book release, "Amplified Voices".


The sun hung high over the Pride festival, bathing the streets in a golden glow. Music pulsed through the air, blending with the sounds of laughter, the rustle of rainbow flags, and the joyous hum of a community coming together.


And at the heart of it all was Charlie.


Charlie wasn’t just a drag queen—he was a masterpiece in motion, a vision of defiant, extravagant beauty. Every inch of him gleamed with intention. His gown, crafted by his own hands, was a swirling, dreamlike creation of layered fabrics, each fold cascading like ocean waves. The embroidery—golden thread woven in intricate patterns—caught the light, turning him into a living, breathing painting.


His hair was a marvel, piled impossibly high, a floral crown woven into the towering locks like a garden blooming from his head. Silk scarves fluttered from his wrists as he danced, twisting and unfurling like ribbons in the wind, their movement as hypnotic as the drag queen himself.


Charlie’s makeup was a lesson in excess—flawless, theatrical, unapologetic. His eyes, ringed in shimmering jewel tones, were framed by lashes so long they practically kissed the sky. His lips, painted a deep, glossy crimson, parted in an ever-present smile. A constellation of rhinestones adorned his cheekbones, catching the sun as he twirled.


But what set Charlie apart, what made heads turn and hearts swell, was his beard.


While the other queens—equally radiant in their own right—glided across the stage with delicate grace, Charlie stood boldly, unabashedly himself. His beard, dark and meticulously groomed, was the final stroke of defiance in his already audacious presentation. He made no attempt to soften it, to blend it, to compromise. It was as much a part of his beauty as the rest of him.


And in that moment, as he spun, a blur of scarves, sequins, and unrelenting self-expression, he was pure magic.



That’s when he saw the boy.


A small figure in the crowd, still and wide-eyed, his tiny fingers clinging to his mother’s hand. He wasn’t clapping or dancing like the others—he was transfixed. Staring. Awestruck.

Charlie, mid-spin, caught his gaze and smiled. The boy’s breath hitched.


Then, without hesitation, he let go of his mother’s hand and ran forward, arms flung wide.


“Look, Mom! It’s a drag queen with a boy face!” he exclaimed, voice brimming with awe.


The words rang through the air, innocent and full of truth. Charlie’s heart clenched. He crouched down as the boy wrapped his small arms around his waist, squeezing tight, as if holding on to something precious.


After a long moment, the boy leaned back and gazed at Charlie, eyes shimmering with excitement. “Can I draw you?” he asked, pulling a notebook and pencil from his tiny backpack.

Charlie laughed, nodding, and struck a dramatic pose. The boy got to work immediately, his little hands sketching the flowing fabric, the towering hair, the flowers, the scarves, the rhinestones, the beard.


He didn’t hesitate. He didn’t question.


He simply saw Charlie for who he was: beautiful.


And Charlie had never felt more seen.


His mother stood a few feet away, frozen, her face a shifting landscape of emotions. Shock. Gratitude. A raw, quiet kind of love.


When she finally spoke, it was barely above a whisper.


“My son… he hasn’t spoken in four years.”


Charlie inhaled sharply. The weight of the moment pressed against his ribs. The noise of the festival dimmed, swallowed by the enormity of what had just happened. He glanced back at the boy, who was still happily sketching, his tongue peeking out in concentration.


Then he looked at the mother—at the unshed tears pooling in her eyes, at the raw emotion on her face. Without thinking, he reached out. And in that moment, they weren’t strangers anymore.



The Lasting Impact of Representation


Charlie’s story is a testament to the profound power of visibility. By simply existing—by daring to take up space in all his bearded, glittering, unconventional glory—he unknowingly changed a life.


That little boy, who had spent four years in silence, saw something in Charlie that gave him the courage to speak. To engage. To connect.


Representation isn’t just about being seen—it’s about showing others that they, too, can exist without apology. That they are not alone.


In a world that still tries to erase, diminish, or confine queer identities, visibility is an act of defiance. It is a lifeline. It is the light at the end of the tunnel for those searching for belonging.


Key Takeaways:

  • Representation matters: It fosters self-acceptance, empowerment, and personal growth.

  • Visibility changes lives: When people see themselves reflected in the world, it breaks down barriers of fear and isolation.

  • Authenticity is revolutionary: Living boldly and unapologetically has the power to inspire and uplift others.


Let’s keep amplifying voices, telling stories, and showing up. Because you never know who is watching—and whose life might be changed by the simple act of being seen.


Crystal Libby

Founder, Queer Edge Consulting


 
 
 

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